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Pavel (not his real name) has just turned 32, but he doesn't look like 25. "Bring some tea and tell us not to disturb us," he briefly tosses the hostess at the bar and escorts me to the VIP room. When asked why he so easily agreed to a meeting with a journalist, he simply answers: "I like to take risks."

The fate of Paul deserves special attention. He is an orphan and grew up in an orphanage. Then he got into a foster family. The father of the family, a physicist-mathematician, taught children at home. They went to school only to pass exams and get assignments for the next year. After the 9th grade, Pasha entered the school, but did not study for a year. He says he's tired of wasting time. That's all his education. “My father taught us to find information on our own. For every unfamiliar word, climb into Ozhegov's dictionary. And so on, until everything becomes clear,” he explains. He began to work as a gas station attendant, put up ads, and was engaged in the decoration of apartments.

The story of erotic massage began with an ad in the Va-bank newspaper. They recruited young guys to work in a strip club, promised to teach everything. The guy didn’t pass the interview - he was too thin: “I say - I don’t need any money, I don’t need anything, if only they would take me. They shrugged their shoulders - well, come on. Now I remember this time as the best. The duties of a stripper in the club included erotic massage services. No special skills were required. The main thing is to bring the guest to the final.

“I like it: to open up, to be frank. And I like exactly the same people. The higher the intellect of a person, the more he wants to embrace the immensity,  -   believes Pavel. -  After some time, I organized my first erotic massage spa at home. I rented an apartment, created the VKontakte group and went ahead. But you burn out over time. Imagine for yourself: every day before your eyes the same thing.

Two years ago, Pavel was offered to rent an erotic massage spa in the city center. Now he manages the entire complex. He says that in order to do erotic massage, you do not need special education: “The main principle here is  -  do no harm. How do I usually do things? If I do something, then I must understand what I am doing. Thanks to my father, I got used to studying everything myself. I have watched a lot of videos about erotic massage, re-read books. Lots of information on this."

Why do people go for erotic massage?

“People love new experiences. They don't come for sex. They go, between us speaking, for debauchery. Of course, in the final he will get an orgasm. Here's a dude, he has money, he has enough of everything in life: a good wife, a good apartment, a good car, three mistresses. But he comes to us. What is the essence of massage? The longer a person is in an excited state, the brighter the finale. During regular sex, this is not the case. And there is no such revelation, games and lightness.

The massage consists of a classic part (light strokes) and an erotic part, which should end with an orgasm. Girls work completely naked. The session usually lasts about an hour. But there are also short programs (20 minutes) - "express lunches". The girls call them "lunch break" among themselves. In total, Pavel has 30 programs in the club, he wrote them all himself. There are inexpensive - up to 4 thousand, and there are VIP programs - up to 30. The cost depends on additional services: the use of toys, dressing up, the number of girls or finals. “The guest can finish before the massage and after,” Pavel explains. - And we guarantee it. There are programs where the guest himself can do a massage. There is a program for two. At the end, a couple can be left for half an hour. There is where the guest is the director himself: he tells how the girl should get up. There are guests who like to pose for themselves.”

Intimacy (coitus) in the cabin is prohibited. "Penetrating caresses" are also not allowed. But, as Pavel admits, sex in such salons was, is and will be. He fires the girls at the slightest suspicion that she gave her number to the guest. But it's impossible to keep track of everyone. According to Pavel, there is a high turnover of staff in this business: “We have a heavy contingent working. You have to constantly watch and suspect. They don't see it as work. I wanted - - I came, I wanted - - I left.

According to Pavel's calculations, there are more than 100 erotic massage salons in Perm: handicraft (in apartments) and commercial ones - those that pay taxes. He has 20 massage girls. Pasha conducts the interview himself.

“The most important thing is that the person should not be shy. At the first stage, I tell how we work, and at the end I ask the girl to undress. Of course, they are all in shock: I'm not ready. As experience shows, if a girl cannot do this in front of me, then she will not be able to work. Somehow a very beautiful girl came, but refused to undress. I think, okay. I put her on the schedule, less than a week passes, she quits, and the guests are also unhappy. All shy, what is she even doing here? Undressing helps to recognize complexes. Moreover, girls love such stress, - he smiles. -  Teach new masseuses who are the best at massaging. I know who does the best job. I also take the final exam myself.

Usually up to 10 masseuses work on a shift. The shift lasts 12 hours. The guest can choose any. All the girls go out and take turns getting to know him. “Now it happens that a girl may not do a single massage in a day. You understand the crisis. A person would rather spend money on food, go on vacation than on this. But in good months, the net profit was in the region of 500-600 thousand.

The salon is visited by wealthy clients. Others can't afford it: “I can remember people by sight. But my job is not to memorize looks and names. It is better not to make friends in this area. You make friends with the guests, and they start asking for a loan, and then not giving back. It doesn't matter if you have money or not."

Pavel notices that erotic massage parlors in Perm are growing like mushrooms:

“In our city, it’s impossible to do business at all, because you opened a karaoke  - everyone starts to open karaoke, opened a bathhouse - everyone starts to open bathhouses. It's the same with salons. We now have more of these salons than the people who go to them.”

Erotic massage master

Nina (not her real name) has been a pole dancer for a long time. While studying economics, she worked part-time in clubs in the evenings. After graduation, she got a job as an accountant, then worked as a secretary and assistant to the head. At her last job, she was made redundant. I didn't want to go to the specialty anymore. On the Internet, I came across an advertisement for the recruitment of masseuses in an erotic massage salon: “no skills are needed, we will train everything, but there is a lot of money.” Then the girl was 25 years old.

“I came to the club and they immediately took me: I can do massage, my body is good, I can also communicate with men. When you learn strip plastic, you get rid of complexes. I thought, why be afraid? Well, man, well, naked. And what? Ordinary mortal. Nobody will bite me for this. Although, let him bite, but for an additional fee (laughs). Any whim, as they say, for your money. Girls without experience, they are afraid. They are shaking right away: what if he doesn’t succeed. ”

Nina worked at the spa for two and a half years. He says that a lot has changed since then. If before erotic massage was not the main income, now girls go to masseuses right after school, because they understand that in a few years you can earn money for an apartment here. “Young people, of course, dream that they will meet a prince among the guests, who will take them away from the salon, with whom they will start a family. But most girls come for money. Our guests are married people. What family are we talking about? Nobody wants to be a mistress."

Many girls save up for plastic surgery to correct their nose or increase their breasts. But there are other  -   single mothers. They work to feed the children.

“In our sphere, mainly secretaries, lawyers, managers come. Physicians and teachers meet,” says Nina. -  We receive 25-35% of the cost of the program, but the salary is different for everyone. There are ordinary girls, and there are top ones, like me. I have a lot of "regulars", they sign up for me, they go to me. Salary from 50 thousand and above. You can easily earn 100. If the girl is not chosen, then she can get 20. But they take everyone. For bosses, the more girls, the better, because some men want a new girl every time.

During her work in the salon, Nina saved up for her own apartment, fully furnished it, and so, little by little: branded clothes, expensive perfumes and cosmetics, beauty salons.

Before the change of masseuses begins, the administrator carefully examines: “Just literally: she passes, touches with her palm so that everything is shaved, -   Nina shows where. -  Evening dress, beautiful lingerie, stockings, shoes, make-up. It is important to be well-groomed. There is strong competition between girls. Each will fight for a man. I’m interested in him coming to me next time to give me money.”

Program example

PEAK OF ENJOYMENT

Juicy impressions of what is happening are provided to you! Your master will bring himself to the peak of pleasure before your eyes...

Relaxing classic massage

Relaxing erotic massage

The erotic part includes a candid peep show performed with a toy

One master

One final

70 minutes  -  6500 rub.

The spa is mostly visited by men. Sometimes couples. Rarely are women. Among the guests there are bank managers, taxi drivers, but more often people are serious: “We don’t need to know about this. Sometimes the authorities say this: “Nina, an influential person will come, she shut her mouth and don’t ask him anything.” You can not discuss work, salary, his family. He came here to rest, so forget about work.

In some cases, the masseuse may refuse the guest in their services. Firstly, if he is in a strong alcoholic or drug intoxication. "Well, what's the point? He won't succeed,” Nina explains. The second reason for refusal is a pronounced skin disease: “I work with my bare hands. I'm not a doctor, maybe he has a common dermatitis or eczema, but I'm not ashamed to ask about it. All sorts of people come to us: old, fat, bald, smelly. Sometimes it's all together. I realized that we have very few healthy men. That is, I washed it, and it smells even worse. But if the skin is clean - "go to work and smile." Thirdly, a guest may be refused if he pesters a girl: “They sign an agreement that the salon does not provide services of an intimate nature. He will be kicked out and the money will not be returned. Several times I refused non-Russians (who are from the market), because they behave disgustingly. The richer a man is, the more decent he is. Leaves a tip, treats the girl with respect. And these people come from the market and want to get everything for 2,000.”

It is their women who are to blame for the fact that men come to spas, Nina believes: “They like that we meet their beautiful ones, we don’t compost their brains, we don’t ask questions, we don’t ask for anything. They did a massage, crushed his legs, stroked his head. To hire a prostitute - - it's dirty for them, just "fu". And the spa is a pleasant pastime. He lies, bastards, he's cool. Why their wives don't do it, I don't understand. Nina herself does not have a man. He says that with such work there is neither strength nor time left for him.

“If it doesn’t become a habit, it’s neither good nor bad”

We asked psychiatrist-sexologist Tatyana Semashko to explain the popularity of this phenomenon.

“Orgasm was given to man by nature in the process of evolution, so that he would not lose the desire to reproduce. After all, this is an energy-intensive process and life-threatening: you need to constantly fight with rivals. Therefore, the very first ejaculation in a man is accompanied by voluptuous sensations, that is, an orgasm. From the point of view of neurophysiology, orgasm is a reflex caused by irritation of trigger zones in the genital area.

For a modern person, sexuality is, first of all, relationships. The state of falling in love changes the biochemistry of the brain, internal drugs are released: neurotransmitters that are responsible for joy, hormones of empathy and passion. This biochemically altered brain receives orgasmic signals through pathways through the structures of the brain. And that animal orgasm that I talked about above turns into ecstasy.

And now let's put next to a cramp from masturbation or sex with ecstasy. It can be compared to taste sensations: it is one thing to suck on a caramel, another to put a piece of fine Swiss chocolate in your mouth. What happens during an erotic massage can be called the satisfaction of lust. If it doesn't become a habit, it's neither good nor bad. The alarm must be beaten if this has become the only way to realize your sexuality. Since I am a practicing specialist, those people who become addicted to erotic massage come to me. I will not say that such men stand in line for me, but there are several people a year. Pair relationships are broken in patients, because the whole link - "desired woman" falls out of the sexual chain.

"Sexual services can be different"

Lawyer Igor Savvin, representing Ural-Garant, explained where the line should be between just a massage and an action that violates the law.

“If this massage does not involve contact with the genitals, but is only relaxing in nature (and whoever experiences what - - you can’t sew it to the point), then this activity cannot be recognized as prostitution, and responsibility in this case does not arise. Important features of prostitution are regularity, communication with various partners, necessarily for a fee, and the fact that this activity is a constant, and sometimes the only source of income. As for sexual services, they can be different, as a rule, they should use the sexual organs of partners. If massage involves contact with a man's genitals and bringing to orgasm, albeit through masturbation, then this should be qualified as the provision of intimate services and falls under Art. 241 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation. "Organization of prostitution".

In the press service of the Main Directorate of the Ministry of Internal Affairs for the Perm Territory, when asked whether the activity of erotic massage parlors is a crime, they answered as follows:

“At your request, I inform you that there is no judicial practice on the criminal activity of erotic massage parlors in the Perm Territory. All operational-search activities carried out by police officers in this area are strictly confidential and at the moment are not subject to disclosure in the mass media.

Nina does not consider herself a prostitute, but she does not really know whether her trade is legal: there were no checks in her memory. The girl said that in large salons there is a special signal. In case it works, she should put on a medical gown and proceed to a classic massage. “We each have a sanitary book. We hand over all tests on time. The girl will have nothing. The authorities will sit down,  -   she is sure.

Pavel's salon was also never checked: “I'll tell you this: they punish those who are not needed. Prostitution, striptease clubs and spas are needed. But everything has to be civil. This is a kind of socialization. People must rest. I think we're in control. We do pay taxes. Those who receive in apartments are worried. There are real dens, breeding grounds for drug addiction and AIDS.”

How to get excited and relax at the same time, while giving pleasure to yourself and your partner? Very simple: learn how to do erotic massage!

Erotic massage originated in the East almost at the same time as regular massage. The ancients knew perfectly well that the impact on certain points of the body can be not only useful, but also ... pleasant. In China, using the technique of acupressure, they tried to control erections in men and thereby prolong sexual intercourse. An equally significant role was played by the art of touch in India, which taught the whole world to rub the body with stimulating oils.

Today, erotic massage has become one of the most popular elements of foreplay. No wonder, because it helps to establish emotional contact between partners, helps to relax and excites at the same time, has a positive effect on potency, sexuality and sensitivity.

To learn how to do erotic massage, you do not need to have any special skills, because it does not have strictly established rules. Nothing is forbidden that will bring pleasure to both. The main thing is to know the basics.

Before embarking on an erotic massage, it is worth remembering that ...

• Before starting, you need to take a bath or shower (as an option - together with a partner).
• Massage can be done anywhere: in bed, bath or any other places. The main thing is that no one can disturb you.
• It is recommended to lubricate the hands with special massage oil (it is preferable to use a lubricant for massage of the genital organs, since the oil can cause irritation). After applying the oil, you need to rub your hands until the palms become warm and soft.
• Make sure your partner is not allergic to the product being used.
• Do not massage damaged areas of the skin!
• Also, do not use sharp or vibrating movements when massaging the chest, abdomen or kidney area.
• You can and should massage not only with your hands, but also with other parts of the body - shoulders, chest, stomach, etc.
• Do not immediately choose an intense rhythm: smooth movements should be gradually replaced by stronger and faster ones.
• To prevent your partner from freezing, you can cover those parts of the body that are not being massaged at the moment with a sheet or towel.

Erogenous zones

The figure shows the most "hot" points of the human body. But still, in mastering the intricacies of erotic massage, it is not so much theory that is important as the ability to listen to a partner, be attentive and monitor the reaction during caresses. Do not be afraid to ask or ask to tell about your feelings - as a rule, this excites even more.

In men, the erogenous zones are located somewhat differently than in women. Pay attention to the back, shoulders, inner thighs, feet. Particularly sensitive areas are where the hair begins, as well as the skin around the nipples, the inside of the forearm, the buttocks, the popliteal cavities, the back of the thighs, the palms, and especially the area between the fingers. All these places instantly react to the touch of hands, tongue or long hair.

Types of erotic massage

• Erotic Thai body massage. A feature of this type of massage is that when it is performed, not a local zone is worked out, but the whole body as a whole - from the tips of the toes to the crown of the head. Massage is performed not only with hands, but also with other parts of the body. Particular attention is paid to erogenous zones and genitals.
• Aqua foam massage carried out in the bath with the addition of foam. Relaxation is achieved by sliding one body against another.
• Tantric massage- This is one of the directions of Indian yoga. The main feature of the ritual is the massage of the genitals. All erogenous zones are also stimulated. Massage manipulations are performed with naked bodies using oils and incense. The massage is accompanied by Indian music.
• main feature massage "Sakura branch"- gentle biting, touching the tongue and lips.

Technique

Massage should begin with gentle strokes. When the partner relaxes, you can proceed to the next step.

There are several basic massage techniques: tapping, pressing, pinching, circular and kneading movements performed by the side surface of the thumbs and the tips of the remaining fingers. You need to massage the whole body, including the genitals. Each technique is recommended to be performed three times, changing the pressure from more intense to weaker.

• Massage of the back of the body. If a person is lying on his stomach, it is best to massage from top to bottom, starting from the head. Then alternately massage both hands to the very tips of the fingers, go down the back to the buttocks and go to the legs.
• Massage of the front surface of the body. You should start the massage from the shoulders, then proceed to the massage of the hands, and only after that move on to the chest and abdomen. You do not need to immediately massage the genitals - it is better to tease the partner. Approaching the genitals, you should lightly touch them, and then return to the part of the body that was massaged before.
• Massage with nail tips begins with circular movements, which are then replaced by movements up and down and from side to side. At the same time, it is recommended to change the speed of movements and the intensity of pressure from minimal to relatively large.
• Body massage. The partner can lie both on the back and on the stomach. It is better to start the massage from above with a light friction of your body against the body of a partner, gradually changing the rhythm and intensity, then pressing hard, then barely touching the partner.
• Massage can also be done with breathing: light breaths activate the partner's erotic zones.
• Lip/tongue massage will be the perfect ending to the prelude. Gentle kisses and teasing bites guarantee unforgettable sex.

Atmosphere.

A favorable atmosphere is extremely important for a successful erotic massage: it leads to more intense relaxation and the awakening of sensuality.

Time. The session can be held at any time of the day, the main thing is that both partners are tuned in to an erotic massage, which, as a rule, is logically crowned with intimacy.

Temperature. The room should be warm: the massage effect will be reduced to zero if the partner is cold. The comfort temperature for each person is individual, but on average it is recommended to maintain it at 22 ° C. It is important to avoid drafts and heat the room to the desired temperature in advance. It is easier to achieve a feeling of comfort with a partner from the very beginning than to try to warm him up and balance him later.

Music. Experts recommend doing erotic massage in silence or to pleasant (or memorable) music for partners. The best option is the sounds of the ocean, rain, etc. Also, there should be no extraneous irritants in the house, so it is better to turn off mobile phones in advance.

Lighting. Direct and bright light will be distracting, so it is better to turn on side lighting, curtain the windows, light candles - this contributes to greater emancipation and relaxation, especially if the partner is embarrassed to be naked in the light.

Surface. A comfortable surface is also needed: hard enough and with a pleasant coating (featherbed, plaid). If the bed is soft, the massage will not be as effective.

Related products

Use of essential oils is an important part of the massage. The oil should be chosen according to what effect you want to achieve: there are oils that stimulate and tonic, soothing and relaxing.

It is best to use a pre-mixed oil, available at any sex shop, as pure essential oils are very concentrated. If you decide to use the concentrate, then it is better to mix it with the base oil (at the rate of three drops of essential oil per teaspoon of the base). The most popular base is clear grape seed oil, which is odorless and tasteless.

Before you buy an essential oil, be sure to smell it. Do not forget that everyone has different tastes and preferences, so when choosing, consult with a partner. The most suitable oils for erotic massage are sandalwood oil, jasmine, ylang-ylang, rose, patchouli... Men often prefer woody scents (cedarwood, sandalwood).

According to feng shui, incense (aroma lamps, smoking sticks, etc.) purify the energy in the room, as well as relieve tension, tone up, restore spiritual harmony and give a charge of vitality. Use them during a massage to improve your partner's mood and well-being. Make sure that the smell is light, pleasant and does not cause inconvenience to you and your loved one.

Lubricants must be used when massaging the genitals. Water-based lubricants are most suitable: they are completely safe and will not affect the quality of contraceptives.

Powderpuffs- fur / feather products in the form of brushes, pouches - designed for light stroking in order to excite a partner.

MILLENNIUM MYSTERY

For hundreds and even thousands of years, the great minds of mankind - psychologists, doctors, writers and philosophers have been exploring one of the most important and still not fully known areas of human life - the relationship between a man and a woman.

Tons of experience have been accumulated, thousands of books have been written, experts in the field of intersexual relations of all stripes give advice and teach to live from TV screens and on the Internet: sexologists, pick-up artists, neurolinguistic programmers, para-, cosmo-, biopsychologists, hereditary healers and magicians. However, the wave of problems in this area continues to grow, and even the entire large army of experts cannot contain it.

System-vector psychology claims that almost all problems between a man and a woman are solvable, it is enough just to understand and realize the root, the root cause of this or that unconscious behavior, and everything will fall into place by itself.

However, while not all people have the techniques and knowledge of system-vector psychology in their intellectual arsenal, one has to look for other, more mundane and straightforward ways to solve their sexual problems, often leading nowhere ...

STRICTLY WITHOUT INTIMATE!

“You will open the door to a world of unexplored sexual pleasure and bliss… forget about all your problems and worries, completely relaxing and drowning in sensual touches… elusive movements, similar to the gestures of a magician, will awaken your erotic potential and release all your sexual energy!” - these colorful and exciting advertisements in RuNet offer an unusual service for our ears and still incomprehensible to many - erotic massage.

Bright pulsing inscription: "Strictly no intimacy!" — only adds to the stupor. Official prostitution is prohibited in Russia, but everyone understands that this phenomenon exists on a huge scale, hiding on the Internet behind signs: “Sauna”, “Leisure”, “Individual rest”, we are all used to this and to some extent reconciled with this. And what then is the essence of erotic massage?

Let's open the veil of secrecy and look at this phenomenon from the standpoint of system-vector psychology...

BREAST OF APHRODITE IN SAKURA BRANCHES

The names of the offered types of massage are finally and tightly jammed by post-Soviet brains that are not yet adept at Western business tricks, brilliant in science, but oaky in everyday terms: "Sakura Sprig", "Aphrodite's Breast", "Double Relax", "Taoist lingam massage". Go and figure out the intricacies of sakura branches and Aphrodite's breasts.

When you visit the "salon" directly, the whole veil of superficial romance and mystery flies off at once.

In the overwhelming majority of cases, the “salons” themselves turn out to be ordinary apartments, in which, depending on the flight of fancy and the size of the wallet of the owner of such a business, a relaxing and eye-caressing atmosphere is created for the visitor. In one case, this is a Spartan mattress thrown right on the floor, a wall sconce with a red lampshade and love songs from a tape recorder standing right on the floor. In other cases, it is even a good repair, a ceiling covered with waves of fabric, a large bed with a canopy, painted walls and subdued intimate light.

System-vector psychology sees a clear dependence of such a radically different interior design on the personality of the business owner. Only a person with a visual vector sees and understands the beauty of the physical world, only such a person is able through himself to understand the pleasure and excitement of subdued light, playful colors, decoration - and in general, to understand the importance of this entourage.

People without a visual vector are not able to appreciate beauty, understand the compatibility of colors, shades, and can only pick up banal and hackneyed clichés from magazines, TV and the Internet. But even using someone else's design ideas will look clumsy and awkward. System-vector psychology warns all owners of massage parlors: without innate inclinations for fine art and design, the result of your work on this path will be deplorable!

BUSINESSMAN OUTSIDE, Pimp INSIDE

Often in a massage parlor you can meet an administrator, often part-time is the same entrepreneur who rented an apartment, agreed with supervisory authorities and hired masseuses.

System-vector psychology unambiguously defines such a person as the owner of a skin vector. Flexible, mobile both in body and soul, always striving for a high social status through making money. He knows how to limit himself, save money, and, most importantly, knows how to enjoy self-restraint.

That is why he works as an administrator in his own business: why spend money hiring a person from the street? You can work on your own and save money! He talks only about money, clearly paints the cost of massage programs, such a one will sell even snow in winter. Feel free to ask visitors about work: where do you work? how much do you get? And if the figure mentioned is less than or comparable to his revenue, then an attempt to increase his rank at the expense of another immediately follows: I am just a few years old, and I am already earning more!

Such pressure can confuse and even offend an ordinary person. However, those who already have a wealth of knowledge in system-vector psychology will immediately clearly see what is in front of them. A person who could become a lawmaker, the founder of a big business that brings not only money, but also benefits to others! Instead, he sits in a rented apartment and sells bodies, trying to dress his petty immoral business in the glittering garb of a successful socially useful business.

MASTER OF ALL FEET

The key figures in the field of erotic massage are, of course, the masseuses themselves. So that the girls would not be pressured by public opinion and their own inner shame for a job that strongly looks like a banal prostitution, one of the employers aptly came up with the idea of ​​calling the girls “masters”. An illusion is created of quite socially useful services such as hairdressing salons, because there are also all without exception "masters" who provide all possible assistance to everyone. Yes, and you immediately feel your worth, you are not some kind of hairdresser or masseur of incomprehensible qualification - you are a “master”! So, a priori, a professional, an expert, you have a certain status. You involuntarily feel respect for a person called a master!

Who goes to work in the field of "light" sexual services? System-vector psychology again comes to our aid. Girls-masters are all like the selection of the owner of the skin and visual vectors. Extremely plastic, sensual, subtly understanding the beauty of movements and gestures. Such girls - born actresses, dancers and ... prostitutes - it all depends on the level of development of the vectors. The lower the level of development, the more pleasure such a girl gets from exposing herself in front of others and from engaging in prostitution in an explicit or lighter, covert form, such as erotic massage.

System-vector psychology focuses our attention on an extremely interesting feature. Under certain internal conditions, such women become so strong and attractive are the pheromones of attraction emitted by them. Moreover, attraction pheromones are emitted undifferentiated, that is, for all men indiscriminately. Naturally, sexual contact or even a massage from such a woman will be extremely pleasant for any man on a physical level due to a strong attraction, and this is in addition to the additional bonus of the emotional and sensual coloring of such contact.

Just skin girls without a visual vector also go into the field of erotic massage, their main desire is to make money,. But sexual contact with a skin woman who does not let go of the pheromones of attraction to the right and left will be purely mechanical, without passion and attraction. A person who is not familiar with systemic vector psychology will simply say: “Well, everything was somehow boring, without a twinkle!” men moment of pleasure into physical torture. The only thought would be to finish your business as soon as possible and leave quickly - sensations comparable to chopping firewood or unloading a dump truck can be obtained without any problems in other places, and completely free of charge.

THE MYSTERY OF DOUBLE RELAX

The essence of erotic massage is quite banal. It comes down to the interweaving of elements of a classic healing massage and the erotic part - in it, a naked girl massages the visitor's body not only with her hands, but also with all parts of the female body, up to the most intimate ones. The massage is carried out until the complete sexual release of the man, which, avoiding medical terms that hit the ears and eyes of unprepared Internet users, is called “complete relaxation”, or simply “relaxation”.

In general, in order to give this activity a decent look and attract even the most cultured and intelligent customers, all generally accepted names and concepts are replaced by other words that reduce the level of obscenity and are designed to smooth out sharp corners a little. But at the same time, they are chosen so that every adult will almost certainly understand what is at stake. “Massage to complete relaxation… lingam acupressure… royal relaxation with herbal pouches… deep caresses…”. After such transparent hints, the hand itself reaches for the phone.

Each salon has its own “menu”, which lists all services and prices. Additional articles are included in a separate article. services. It is obvious to those who know the principles of system-vector psychology that the very idea of ​​additional services first appeared in the West, in the USA and Europe. In these countries with a skin mentality, therefore, the services provided are stretched to the widest possible range of consumers. There are prices for every pocket. Moreover, the splitting of services into elements with a separate low cost pushes the consumer to spend a little more money than he expected.

You can come up with any excuse, explain it by caring for customers, the convenience of working with people and for people, but the root of all this is only the desire to get as much profit as possible by all available methods. This unconscious desire of skin people, hidden even from themselves, is clearly traced and calculated by the methods of system-vector psychology - a universal tool for dissecting reality.

As additional services, you can also order such types of “interaction”, which until some time were available only from real “priestesses of love”. An example of one of the most "innocent" pranks is the "Mistress" program with all the textbook entourage: leather, whips and spikes. Upon further study of the “menu” of the salon, the obligatory phrase: “Strictly without intimacy!” - begins to cause sincere bewilderment ... or even nervous laughter.

LINGAM IS RELATED. FROM YONI TO YONI

Many women have been deceived by their husbands, many have survived. There is even a common phrase that sooner or later any man begins to change. Women all over the world are racking their brains and wondering what is the root of betrayal, why do men go to the left, who goes and, most importantly, why? What is missing in family life?

Sexologists and other experts in relations between a man and a woman build different assumptions, look for dependencies, trends, and still have not yet come to a unified system that explains any manifestations of the sexual behavior of men and women.

Only system-vector psychology is able today to adequately place emphasis and explain the root cause of any betrayal, any dissatisfaction with sexual and family life, pushing many men into the arms of priestesses of love and making them regular customers of massage parlors.

The main consumers of erotic massage are men with anal and skin vectors.

From the standpoint of system-vector psychology, monogamous by nature, the most exemplary family man and husband, is the owner of a powerful libido, he needs regular sexual contact with his wife. Not getting this in full, he experiences great stress and suffering, like a thirsty traveler in the desert. If you put water in front of the afflicted, but say that it is alien and it is forbidden to drink it by law, sooner or later he will break the ban and drink - the thirst is too great and unbearable. Similarly, an anal man, not being able to fully satisfy his desire at home, will look for an opportunity to "get drunk" on the side. The value of the family and loyalty are above all for him, but when the thirst becomes unbearable, no prohibitions and restrictions can hold a person.

In addition, although erotic massage is close to outright prostitution, there is no direct sexual contact there - only imitation. This feature allows you to separate in the minds of society an erotic massage from an obvious betrayal, because in fact you just rubbed yourself against another woman, so what's wrong with that? Well, yes, she was naked, but it's not treason!

This thin, but still, border allows anal people to somehow get the pleasure they lack in family life, without crossing the border that exists only in their minds, when crossing it, all their ideals and value systems will be violated.

Applying the knowledge of system-vector psychology, one can also easily understand the motivation of a skin man who visits massage parlors. For a happy life, without stress and suffering, such a man needs to realize himself in life as an organizer, leader, a person who knows how to effectively manage a team and find the least costly and optimal ways to complete any tasks assigned to him.

For some reason, not getting the proper realization of his innate properties, such a man seeks to realize his inner craving for novelty not in his professional activity, but in changing sexual partners. Another manifestation of skin stress may be the desire to obey and enjoy the beating - masochism. It is for such people that the “Madam” program is included in the menu of the salons, which is why skin administrators advise it - they feel through themselves that such a program would bring them the necessary relaxation. Recommend to other people, not even allowing the thought that they may differ in their innate desires for pleasure. A separate bait is also waiting for the owners of the visual vector. You can, of course, use the services of a real prostitute, but for some it is too mundane - an animal act without a drop of romance and at least the appearance of sympathy. Here, massage parlors come to the rescue, in which, in addition to bodily pleasure, you can also get a little filling of the visual vector. Pretending entourage, intricate intriguing names, elements of artistry and plasticity - all this adds charm and romance, raising erotic massage in the minds of people to the rank of something exclusive and even elite.

How much easy money has already been brought to enterprising people by the magic prefix VIP, which turns an ordinary room into an apartment, an old foreign car into a business class car, and an ordinary person into an important person. People are willing to pay money for the illusion of their importance. This is where the skin slicker jumped over the medieval alchemist, who was poring over the transformation of lead into gold. Getting money out of thin air - isn't it a true miracle?!

DRUNK WITH RELAXATION. HANGOVER

In modern society, neither adultery, nor frequent change of partners, nor civil marriages are condemned anymore, as it was quite recently. Each person is an individual, which means that he lives as he wants, does what he wants, while remaining within the law.

However, without touching upon the issue of morality, system-vector psychology unequivocally proves that those who use the services of priestesses of love have social and sexual frustrations, i.e., dissatisfaction. They are unhappy, but they cannot understand this and are hostages of their bad states. What they do is not a crime, but it is a road to nowhere, especially since human nature always demands more, and over time there is a danger of slipping from an “innocent” massage into the most deviant types of pleasure: from hard sex to any other perversions, perhaps even to the point of violence.

The only way out of this situation for those who have already set foot on this slippery path, and even those who have already passed, it would seem, the point of no return, is to realize their true desires. Only a deep understanding of one's inner nature makes it possible to live a happy life full of pleasures. Live to the fullest, enjoying the realization of your innate qualities, and not hiding from people, secretly visiting ambiguous places and, like a thief, stealing only miserable crumbs of pleasure from life.

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Good day, dear comrades!
I'm dying to ask the question, what do you know about corrupt love? I, in my incomplete thirty, absolutely did not know anything! Actually, why do I need this knowledge, because I am far from being an elderly man with a beer belly, not bound by marital ties and do not have countless treasures that I have nowhere to spend. But still, I finally decided to fill the gap in my own knowledge.

Don't think I'm not good with girls. I make good money, I can afford to visit advanced establishments, I have enough money to treat a girl to Mojito or Sambuca, I can recite classical poetry to the place and I have an accessible sense of humor, enough to turn the head of a casual acquaintance. Whirl, even if only for one evening. In other words, I’m not ready for a more or less serious relationship, but I also couldn’t buy “love” before. In general, today I decided to refrain from visiting "Diamond" or "Hradetsky", to refuse the next offer of Kyiv friends to buzz in Barsky or "PaTiPa", and to have fun in a slightly different way.

Today is Friday, as some say, a whore. Not hoping for a chance, I found among the old business cards a card with a tempting offer of erotic massage.
I remember, at one of the parties, a promoter put a few cards in my hand. On the one hand, there was an advertisement for a taxi, on the other, an advertisement for an exotic massage parlor with bare breasts of some lady. I would have forgotten about it, but my nephew found this advertisement, took it to kindergarten, and there his comrades were caught by the teacher looking at them. Well, at least that time I took Sasha and took all the indignation and accusations of unworthy upbringing upon myself. Well, yes, how can a child slip such pictures? Well, I think the attempt is not torture - I'll call.

But why am I beating myself up? Maybe this is really just a massage with erotic elements? On the other hand, is it so good that it is worth paying money for it? I remember that my older brother told me how after tasting Chivas in Moscow, with a group of comrades, he succumbed to advertising and went to a Thai massage parlor. To perform this exotic action, they brought three sweaty (sorry, but the words cannot be thrown out of the song) Moldavian women, with thick thighs, and the guys, afraid that these portly girls would break their spines, dancing a Thai folk dance on their backs, hastily retreated, heading for new shot of scotch whiskey.

Prelude

Assuming that later I might be tortured with spam or even blackmailed, I buy a starter pack, insert the card into the old device and dial the phone number. A girl with a sweet voice picks up the phone and tells all the details. Classic erotic massage - 400 hryvnia, with striptease or kisses and the ability to touch a girl - 600, and with two - from 800 and more. They say that today it is possible, but in an hour, so that I don’t run into other visitors ... Well, I think it’s prudent. In an hour means in an hour.

Taking advantage of the fact that everyone left the office on the eve of the weekend, and even more so the authorities, I unbutton the top button of my shirt, loosen the knot of my tie, and put my feet in new polished shoes on the table. At the same time, extracting from the depths of the desk an already open bottle of Hennessy, presented by one of the well-wishers. I pour a little more than fifty grams into a glass and, savoring it, drink it for courage, in addition to seem like a kind of cheerful guy, because it seems to me that it is not sober who go to erotic massage. An hour passes after my thoughts and the taxi operator calls. It's time!

Act one

Sitting in a taxi, I tell the driver the address and I notice a smirk on his face. He, having caught my glance in the rearview mirror, is embarrassed and begins to talk about how he supposedly remembered a funny story, which further strengthens me in the belief that this address is familiar to him ...

Arriving at the place and dialing the code on the door, I go up to the fourth floor of an ordinary residential building. Hmmm, I think what kind of massage parlor is this ... What is not located in administrative or office buildings?
I ring the doorbell and after I was examined through the peephole, they open it. On the threshold of a fragile pretty girl in a short dress. I draw attention to the sticker on the door with the coat of arms of the Ministry of Internal Affairs: "It is under protection." However! .. I go inside, hang up my jacket in the hallway and sit down on the sofa in the hall of an ordinary average apartment. Coffee? Of course yes!

Act two

I listen again to the "commercial" offer. During this, two ladies in lingerie and corsets enter the room. Long-haired, tall, even in comparison with my height, and in shoes with hefty heels. Clearly adults and probably five years younger than me.

They sit on the armrests of the "leading" sofa. I am a little embarrassed and start to mumble, hiding my eyes. The cognac I had drunk was obviously not enough... The sensations are such that I did not come for a massage, but to a brothel... Although, who am I kidding? I knew where I was going! I agree to a massage with kisses and touches for six hundred hryvnias. The "mistress", twenty-something years old, warns that there will be no touching me in the "bikini zone" - this is the rule.

I choose a girl at random, realizing that if I stare at them for a long time, I will arouse suspicion. We pass into the room, then, on the recommendation of the girl, undressing, I follow into the shower. It's strange how many times he went for a massage, but never once asked to take a shower in front of him ... Suspicious ...

Act Three

After taking a shower in what seemed to me a clean shower stall of this secret apartment, I returned to the room. I lie down on the bed completely naked, even without socks, having previously removed my underwear. So they said it is necessary so as not to stain it with massage oils. Okay, the masseur is not a man - there is nothing to be afraid of. I draw your attention to the fact that there is a special composition of mirrors on the wall, which allows you to observe what is happening on the bed.
I relax and begin to take a limb massage, thinking about what the pretty "madame" meant by the phrase "until complete relaxation." Gradually, the massage begins to spread to the body and, feeling a slight excitement, I begin to believe that the massage is erotic.

act four

I relax, and the lady gets bolder. Naturally, I begin to want more, but the girl stops me, reminding me of the “rules”, while switching to the “forbidden” massage in my bikini area ... Wow, I think the rules ... By the way, I didn’t notice at all when my masseuse took off her corset and underwear. The evening ceases to be languid! I remember university lectures and knowledge gained from reading the medical Talmuds. I hope not to earn any skin disease, and even more so - a venereal one.
I don’t think that a respected publication should convey all the details of bringing me to “relaxation”, I will only note that there were no penetrations into the organisms, but if you try to convince me that it was not a corrupt love, I will argue with you to the point of hoarseness.

Epilogue

Do you know why men after sex tend to quickly wash off or fall asleep? For different reasons. If a man falls asleep, then, strange as it may sound, everything is fine. He feels safe, which means he trusts you ... Well, of course, if he is not dead drunk. And they want to leave either because they are not yet sure of their feelings, or because after the apogee of feelings has subsided, they understand that they ended up in your bed quite by accident. Driven by hypnosis, poisoned by hormones or stupefied by alcohol.
I'm not an exception. After the “relaxation”, he pulled on his trousers, put his tie in his inner pocket and left without saying goodbye. I very much doubt that this “enterprise” is registered with the tax authorities, that all the relevant permits have been issued, that they are checked by a sanitary station and that all “masseuses” undergo appropriate training and medical examinations ... And in general, is such “relaxation” and How does it differ from banal prostitution?
Maybe it's necessary to appease the tourists for Euro 2012? But what about family values, what about normal human relations between men and women, and not the kind that homosexual and dissolute Europe instills with its red-light districts?

After a while, I had a strange feeling, like no one pulled me there, didn’t force me, but my heart was disgusting. I am definitely a scoundrel - I took advantage, and now I condemn it. I bought "love" ... No, it's probably time to choose among the worthy and not flutter like a butterfly ...
Will I go again? It is unlikely!

Andrey Vasiliev, "Main Chernihiv newspaper", No. 13 (043), dated 04.05.12

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Sexual pleasures in life are not limited to making love. Erotic massage is a special kind of pleasure, including both massage itself and intimate caresses, as well as the charm of contemplating the naked beauty of the partner's body.

This is a kind of game where touches alternate with gentle strokes and kisses. Treatises on this art were created in ancient Egypt, India, China and Japan.

High-quality erotic massage can bring pleasure no less than sex itself. Especially if your favorite partner does it. To do it, it is not at all necessary to take special courses, although such ones already exist. It is enough just to be psychologically liberated, not pinched, and then everything will work out, and if you experience psychological problems or discomfort, but want to do it, just call me and we will discuss it with you.

Why is this needed?

The main goal of erotic massage is not so much excitement as relaxation and long-term pleasure.

Such a massage has a positive effect on sexual energy, harmony of feelings, helps to achieve emancipation and get better acquainted with the erogenous zones - one's own body and the body of a partner. It awakens new sexual feelings and emotions and improves the relationship between partners in general.

General principles:

Erotic massage is absolutely different from the usual therapeutic one. Erotic massage is based on feelings, so there are no specific techniques and you can do absolutely everything that you and your partner like. During such a massage, you can find many erogenous zones.That is, those that are important when performing erotic massage for both men and women.

Paradoxical as it may seem, during an erotic massage you can communicate and talk. That is, discuss your feelings and just talk about love.

The atmosphere in the room should be inviting, intimate: you can turn off the lights, light candles, turn on melodious music. Smells play an important role in a person's mood, so you can use scented candles. But the smell should not be distracting, it should be light, barely perceptible. To do this, you can simply put a few citrus fruits cut in half around or use essential oils.

In the process of massage, it is good to use a cream, but of the most natural origin. A strong smell can get in the way. When it comes to aromatic oils, orange and patchouli, cinnamon and bergamot, jasmine and iris, tuberose and ylang-ylang can be ideal scents for arousal.

The "object" of the massage should be in a relaxed state, for this, before the "session" you can take an aromatic bath. To relieve psychological stress, individual sessions with a psychoanalyst are very suitable.

The intensity of movements during the massage should "increase" gradually. It’s worth starting with gentle circular caressing touches, later moving on to warming ones (increasing rubbing), even later - to energetic ones (“knead the dough”, pinch, knead). Among other movements used in erotic massage are vibration, finger massage with nail tips or pads, tongue and lips, hot breath massage. A special art is massage with your own body. You can lightly touch your partner or lean on him and “create friction”, as well as use improvised items, such as feathers, pieces of fur, delicate silk or denser velvet, but in such a way that it is not ticklish for the partner.

It is expected that the “performer” or “performer” of erotic massage is supposed to be naked, but a woman can be thrown over her naked body and something light and airy.

For men:

To begin with, about the most sensitive male places. These are the buttocks, the inner thighs, the hollows under the knees, the nipples and the skin surrounding them, the fingers and toes, the back of the head, the coccyx, the abdominal area between the navel and the pubis. Well, and, of course, those special individual zones that you or he knows about.

Start with a hand and foot massage. It relaxes, relieves muscle tension, fatigue, increases blood flow. After all, there are a lot of sensitive points in the limbs! By the way, the erogenous zones in many men are located precisely on the fingers and toes, so it's a good idea to pay attention to each finger individually. It is good to knead the palms with the help of circular movements of the knuckles of the fist, foot, pads of the thumbs.

Then you can move on to the back. Start with gentle strokes, then move on to a more intense effect. The spine from beginning to end can be worked out with the knuckle or pad of the index finger, descending from the neck to the sacrum. The erogenous zone of many representatives of the strong half of humanity is located between the shoulder blades - so it's worth massaging this zone.

The logical continuation of the back massage is the buttocks. In the process, it is worth actively using rhythmic patting movements, and then moving on to stroking and pressing (with the help of fists). Well, then follow the kneading.

We're all going down. Massage the back of the legs. First, you can take turns clasping each partner’s leg with both palms and hold it up and down. This is followed by kneading, chopping movements along the back and inside of the thigh and pulling the skin with movements with the palms.

It's time to "flip your partner" because it's time for a belly and chest massage. The main movements here are stroking and kissing. Particular attention is paid to the partner's nipples. Of course, in men they are far from being as sensitive as in women, but still sensitive. However, you should not forget that the tongue during this pleasant action is relaxed so that the man does not have painful or unpleasant sensations, and at the same time all this brings you pleasure.

Most men have an erogenous zone on their abdomen, just below the navel.

The logical continuation is a massage of the genitals. If you do not want everything to turn into sexual intercourse abruptly and rapidly, caresses of the genitals should not be made intense. Manhood should be subjected to only light touches.

For these zones, there are special practices that were theorized by the Taoists. According to modern Indian scientists, such a massage promotes blood flow to the genitals and improves their performance, has a good effect on the volume and quality of sperm, stimulates the hormonal system and increases testosterone production. According to some other versions, this has a good effect on the digestive system, and on the psyche, and on the immune system.

Women's nuances

Erotic massage for ladies is not too different in many principles from massage for men, and the same scheme can be used. But there are some peculiarities, and not only in relation to the “secret organs”.

The main female erogenous zones are the chest, hair, toes, as in a man, sides, arms, abdomen, especially its lower part, buttocks, outer and inner thighs. And many still have a waistline or, say, knees.

That is, when massaging the back, it is worth paying special attention to the sides and waist, and then especially carefully massage the stomach.

A separate situation with breast massage: you need to pay special attention to it, because women's breasts are more sensitive than men's. But this also dictates special caution, it is necessary to prevent unpleasant sensations. The chest should be stroked in a circular motion and gently grasped with the lips. And all this without much pressure and fanaticism. A separate emphasis should be placed on the chest area.

Separate moment - massage of the most intimate places. Here, soft and rhythmic movements of the fingers are used, and when finding areas that especially respond to affection, a more intense effect on them. Similar caresses can be used for the famous G-spot - a place on the front wall of the vagina, under the pubic bone.

It is important to know that erotic massage is a special art, where not dry theory is important, but the participation of partners' fantasy. The more often you give each other erotic massage, the faster you will come closer to perfection in your intimate life, and therefore to each other.